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October 2008
Thursday October 30, 2008
Lost in Illinois for two days....
Posted by: pokie too at 2:56PM CST on October 30, 2008
I have to take" r& r " time occasionally and when I do that means going to visit and babysit for my new grandson. He's five months old and weights eighteen pounds and yes, he is going to be a big boy. I wonder how long I can continue to do this as my Parkinson's progresses on.  You see the left side of my body responds as if I have had a stroke and lifting is very unstable to say the least yet every minute we spend together is shier heaven. I am so determined that this will not be another thing that I have to say I cannot do. When you are around this disease you are faced with this on a daily bases and the term "I use to be" or just " I use to" pop up in the conversation far too often. Then I started reinventing myself ....And as someone wrote recently "I am a female farmer from the midwest turned blogger" I will take this as a compliment and milk it for all it's worth...probably not much? I believe God gives you these alternatives and then it is up to you to go with it and get in the game or sit on the side lines and complain.....complaining is something I don't like to hear or do.....I much prefer happy thoughts and sunshine and on that happy thought is the 2009 Parkinson's Unity Walk in New York City.

 


The walk is always the last weekend in April, which is just a beautiful time of year for the city and Central Park, which is where it is held. I'll download some of my photos to show you just what a show it  put on for me last spring. I mustard up all the finances I could  and made all the reservations myself and off I went to somewhere I had never been and to be in a place where I knew no one.  I can only say that American, Marriott and New York  and the Unity Walk Staff treated me like a queen . This year it will be more organized as the Team Patientslikeme.com swells in size and our knowledge has broadened .  I have traveled all year to seminars and symposiums trying to gather material and knowledge on how to fight this disease and win....if not for me, for the next generation.  People know when they pick up thier phone and I say,"This is Pokie" who I am and that I need information about something and I am fighting with all I have for Parkinson's.  I am co- captain of the team and our goal is over $25,000 and we will do everything we can to get that goal...We are now about 20 strong from all over the United States and very much united in the cause.

I will end this up for now by saying that over the month our enthusiasm can only grow but to what heights only God can tell .  We believe and sometimes that is all it takes to find a cure......love pokie

P.S. not as an afterthought but very much as a gracing. I contacted Jackie Meyers today from the David Jid Program and they are willing to help me with the education of Fayette County about Parkinson's Disease and good health in general for the citizens of this great country...The United States of America... 

Tuesday October 28, 2008
Fayette County Learns About Young Onset Parkinson's
Posted by: pokie too at 9:20AM CST on October 28, 2008
Yesterday was a day not many people have and certainly not me. I started the day as usual in some what of a fog while checking my email and having my first cup of coffee. my Parkinson's meds had not kicked in yet and everything was moving in slow motion. I opened opened my inbox and WHAT? Mark Johnson (Off the Mark) from Ne-journalonline.com mentioned me in an article he was doing on the YOPN Conference in Atlanta, Ga. in August..  Mark refered to me as the female farmer tuned blogger from the midwest.....I'll take that and run with it..Thanks, Mark.

 Then when I came down off the wall from that, I realized my SLToday blog had some readers...I HAD MAIL. The phone was ringing and my friend Tom from a previous article has gotten a break on the Loaner Closets for Parkinsons and it looks like a go. The quilt we are putting together for the Unity Walk will not only get done on time but the work to quilt it is being donated. That was all in the first hour after I got up. I answered my correspondence and head into town where I have been trying to get a support group off the ground.  For the past year, as I travel o symposiums and conferences, I have collected all manor of literature for speech therapy, physical therapy, Parkinson's and nutrition , Tui Ci,  and fitness waiting for this day.  The Fayette Co.Hospital in Vandalia is providing me with a conference room and refreshments once monthly for a support group. I believe his to be the first one in the county.  They are giving me 15 min radio time next week and  county and internet newspaper coverage......This is so needed in our area and most rural areas. The general public does not understand that Parkinson's is being found in teenagers and young adults as well as older adults. It's time to treat this seriously. At any time our young could start being diagnosed with essential tremor, if it isn't already happening....

This would have been enough, but to top it off  I was ask if I can demonstrate the thing Loud Program and David Zid's Fitness for Parkinson's Program to the nursing home and get them on this daily.....Just How Great Is This...God only knows.


Monday October 27, 2008
Traveling for a Cure
Posted by: pokie too at 2:48AM CST on October 27, 2008
Several things have happened to me in the past month, things that never would have happened before being diagnosed with Parkinson's Disease. I launched a support group at the Fayette Co. Hospital , in Vandalia, Illinois. It's not just for Parkinson's Disease but caregivers and anyone that would just like to talk and get information about neurological disorders. The first meeting was a month ago, tomorrow and so I will venture back  with my mind a buzz with places I have been and things I have learned.

 One of the great people I met was David Zid from Columbus, Ohio.  Oh, now if you ever get the chance to meet this man, please go  David  graduated from the University of Ohio and is a APG certified personal trainer and President of Columbus Health Works and co author of  Delay the Disease .  He was soon drawn into Parkinson's disease through a newly diagnosed friend and from their he saves the world.  If  David didn't do anything but smile  he would win the world but he does very simple exercises that you can do sitting down or with a chair..  His program is Exercise and Parkinson's Disease and his book is Delay the Disease, and it works based on the idea that if muscles are not moved they will freeze and not be able to move and so David thinks Big. Big movements that start in small ways and over time the movement comes back.  When you see his presentation he comes down off the stage and  goes through the crowd and you can tell how much he loves what he does. He's not above lying on the floor or giving you a hug or just stopping the show and talking to you.  He really cares!

I had met his dad in Atlanta at the Young Onset Parkinson's Convention in August and was so surprised to see him again at Indianapolis, Indiana and realize that he was David's father. I was there for the Parkinson's Awareness Assn of Central Indiana, Inc. attending their symposium and David's dad recognized me first and then it was on.....What a wonderful family and the things they are doing for Parkinson's Disease are astronomical...

The next person I met that day was a tiny little gal making a difference..Kristy Follmar Executive Director of Rock Steady Boxing and a certified personal trainer.  She began her career as an Indiana Golden Gloves Women's Chanp(1999, 2000) and first eve Women's Indiana State Chanpion and NABC Featherwieght and Super Featherweight Champion (2002, 2003).  With this list of credentials, she is the sweetest , most down to earth little gal I have ever met.  She takes people sixties, seventies, and eighties and teaches them to box and love it.  She brought with her two examples, a woman in her sixties and a gentleman in his late seventies and you should have seen them hit that glove as she yelled right,  left, left, right.  They were the picture of self confidence and balance. These are two very important things to people with Parkinson's and two thing that we usually have very little of.

 As luck will have it, when I got tho the Davis Phinney Victory Summit in Denver, October 4th, Kristy and her personal trainer Bob Schaefer and I got a chance to really talk and exchange ideas on a cure and  talk about some people with great ideas within the Parkinson's network,  one being my friend Tom and the Loaner Closet for Needed Equipment.

As you can tell I have found my passion though being faced with a dibilitaing disease.  My daily trials are counterbalanced with possibilities for a cure and through taking that passion to the street awareness is raised.  Parkinson's is no longer someone in the corner of the nursing home in a wheel chair sleeping.  We are many, many strong fighting a disease that can strike you down in your teens and twenties as well as older.Will it take babies being diagnosed with this disease before we can fnd a cure?


Sunday October 26, 2008
Let Me Tell You About Nicole and her Family
Posted by: pokie too at 3:25AM CST on October 26, 2008
What a beautiful day from beginning to end. Nicol and I had planned and replanned to meet and our plans always fell through.  The day before I had not gotten to her house as expected and was beginning to think that i would not get to meet  her at all after months of planning.  Then not to be foiled here she comes with her whole family to pick me up at the Davis Phinney Victory Summit and some one walks up beside me and says. "Hi" and I shot back  "Hi" and then realized it was her in her martial arts uniform ready to show me what she could do. Her husband had planned a trip to Golden, Colorado for lunch and so off we ventured as if we had known each other forever.As we drove through the countryside, we  were just chattering about Illinois while the kids looked at the pictures on my camera.

You might be asking what she wanted to show me and why?  You see in April Nicol had DBS surgery for Parkinson's Disease and now, six months later, sheonce again is practicing the martial arts by breaking boards with not only her hands but feet.  She has overcome huge bouts of depression to get to where she is now and no amount of words will ever explain the pride I have in her and her accomplishments.  She set her sights and did not settle for less.  i can remeber one morning several months ago when several of the girls and I had gathered in a chat room  to discuss starting the day with Parkinson's Disease.  Nicol was late that morning but when she logged in , Noone was prepared for what she did next. She took us step by step through getting her Brain geared up for the day.  Each button she pushed and how long it took  it to respond was presented to us in the most real fashion possible.  I remember contacting the site and asking the head researchers to pull up a copy of the transcript of that conversation....it touched me that much.

 I also remember the day she had her surgery.  She had ask we pray for her on Patientslikeme.com.   A prayer chain was started as usual and we waited for results which ussually come by one of the family members emailing someone on the site.  Not this time it was nicole herself briefly calling one of us to say she was doing fine.  This was only hours after the surgery, when it would have been so easy for her to have just rolled over and felt terrible, instead she was this little ray of sunshine constantly wanting us to know what was going on.  The trials her family and her were put through  from mis-diagnoses to medication problems seemed to be never ending, yet she just kept trying.  Did I mention she is 48 and has two school age children A.J. (13) and Faith Ann (9)?

 Well we hugged and we cried and i answered all the questions questions I could and a very good pizza was consumed rapidly.  We sarted out of town and passed a park and Jeff pulled over while Nicol got ready. It was board breaking time,  Right here in the middle of Golden with the world watchingon , Nicol took control of her life.  I held the boards and she broke them....just as swift as that; first with her hands and then her feet..  I thought I was prowd of her but you have seen her families' faces as mom showed all she had for me....I t cannot be put into words....

We left  and hurried to the airport for the next leg of my journey. They checked in my luggage and i gave them a hug and started to get in the wheelchair, when I heard the kids hollering , "Miss Pokie, wait!" I turned  and there they came out of the truck, running down the sidewalk to give me hugs goodbye....It just doesn't get any better than that...Thanks and know I love you all......Your friend always   Pokie

 P.S.   Last weekend Nicol passed her test for her Black Stripe on her Brown Belt with no problems. I give her four shining stars and wish her continued success in her journey to 2009.

 


 

Thursday October 23, 2008
Things are heating up
Posted by: pokie too at 5:05AM CST on October 23, 2008
Right now the site is really hopping with excitement.  That site is Patientslikeme.com and the Parkinsons Unity Walk 2009.com........I'm going to break my pattern abit and tell you about our new project.  We have decided to each do a quilt square at peace in our homes.  Some will  piece a square and some will paint.  Some will trace a picture and outline it while others will do the traditional quilting.Whatever they come up with will come back to me  to be made into a kingsize quilt that I hope to have travel with me in 2009 and at the end of the year raffle it off as a sizable donation to Parkinson's Research.

Tom has come up with a program called A Loaner Closet for Pd patients. The plan would provide a central data base for the availability of wheelchairs, walkers and all other equipment we need to survive.. The plan is that no one go without or have to buy hospital equipment.  With the price of metal these days, people are turning this equipment in for scrap metal instead of passing it on.  As the economy gets worse the problem will become more critical.  We can no longer depend on the government to help us.  We need it to not be a beurocracy but a network of knowing, caring friends. With a little networking, I believe Tom can head this.  He's a terrific salesman with a huge heart.

 We'd like to have a corporate sponsor for this years walk.  Possibly Patientslikeme.com will match what we gather for support. Seems only right with all the notoriety we have brought the site and it's a tax right of fY.....right?

There are so many things that can be accomplished for all branches of neurological disorders if we can get past the red tape and paperwork. We are making a difference between ourselves. Each of us have our own special abilities and we work together as a whole very well.  This is a miracle concidering we are scatterd all across the United States.  We use all forms of communication to get the job done  and we even travel to sit down and brainstorm our ideas and needs.  I just got back from Denver and California and Ladyhawk will be going to California the first of November for a week.  We feel we are on the cutting edge of a great program.You see, people with Parkinsons are not just someone in a wheelchair  in the corner of a nursing home....  As always Pokie

 

 


Wednesday October 1, 2008
My Friend Tom
Posted by: pokie too at 1:53AM CST on October 1, 2008
I woke up tonight and for some reason could not wait to get to the computer and tell you about someone I am so very proud of.  When you talk to Tom or Tom Ram, you never here him complain and if anyone has ever earned he right to complain , it would be Tom.  I meet Tom last December after I posted a poem about giving your friends roses to let them know how much you care.  The next morning in my in box was a very simple line...."My name is Tom and I send you a dozen red roses." The winter was very hard in Illinois and then there was Tom in New York City.  He is in a wheelchair, has had two strokes and has Parkinson's Disease and he is 42 years old.  That's a lot to carry at his age or any other age.  His body is restless and twisted at times.  Pain is his constant companion His means of transportation is a motorized wheelchair and if he is not in it, he wears braces on his legs and arms. One night we were talking on the internet and I decided to join the 2008 Unity Walk in New York City in April and I would walk with Tom.....and walk we did.  We walked the two mile route with me holding on to his wheelchair.  After the first bend in the path  he stopped and got out of his wheelchair to walk hand in hand for about a quarter of a mile with me.  God's presence was everywhere!  As we passed the Tavern on the Green, Tom turned to me and said "Pokie, one more mile" and my answer to that was, "Then put this wheelchair in high gear because I'm running out of steam and we are going to have to go faster." He started talking.  Talking about anything and everything.  I huffed and I puffed and I kept on walking until finally Tom looked up at me and said, "Pokie you made it, there's the finish."  We had done it  in Central Park with 10,000 people beside us.  We had walked for a cure to this terrible disease.  The tears flowed and the smiles were huge and the hugs just kept on coming.  One by one we crossed over the finish line. We had completed the walk ONE MORE YEAR. That walk and that friend changed my life forever.

 

In Tom's Journey to the 2009 Walk, every corner has been shrouded in black. He was struck by a car at an intersection and left for dead strapped to his wheelchair. Money got tight and times got hard and depression set in hard on my friend.  Soon Tom could see no reason to keep fighting the never ending battle. I was posting on Patientslikeme.com one night and up pops a messge after many months of silence from the screen, "Pokie where are you?" and it was Tom at the end of his rope and not wanting to hang on....

 We talked for hours that night as only true friends can.  You see true friends never pay any attention to the outside they only deal with the heart. This guys heart is huge and he has a natural knack for making you laugh. He was in so much pain and he really saw no reason to be were he was in life. We prayed and soon it was morning and he was gone in cyberspace. Not to long after that I got a call saying Tom was in the hospital with stroke number three and was not doing well.  The whole site set up a prayer chain for Tom and before long we heard he could talk and was going to make it.

 Now, it's October and my buddy is back better than ever.  His wife has left him and he's taken several more falls but he's hanging in there joking with everyone on the site and everywhere else.  He's planning on getting back into boxing and building models of ships and planes and this year he will be our 'chef in the park' for the 2009 Parkinson's Unity Walk....Our own Tom from New York the Rams Fan.....love ya Pokie


 

About This Blog
A description of my journey to the 2009 Parkinson's Unity Walk in 2009, including interesting stories and bio's on our team members, our thoughts on our goals and dreams as we work toward our goal. We will be and currently are Team Patientslikeme.com. Our home is this website where we post daily. Our goal is to raise at least $25,000.00 this year for the cure.

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